[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.mandr.sk\/bojime-sa-o-deti\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.mandr.sk\/bojime-sa-o-deti\/","headline":"Boj\u00edme sa o deti","name":"Boj\u00edme sa o deti","description":"K\u00fdm je mali\u010dk\u00e9 boj\u00edme sa \u010di je napapkan\u00e9, \u010di je v\u00a0suchom, \u010di ho nebol\u00ed bru\u0161ko. 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Len aby nespadlo! Len aby sa neudrelo! Len aby nevzalo nie\u010do nevhodn\u00e9 do pusy. Len….Boj\u00edme sa o\u00a0nich a\u00a0boj\u00edme sa o\u00a0seba, aby sme neurobili chybu pri v\u00fdchove.Moje deti s\u00fa dnes dospel\u00e9.\u00a0Robil som chyby?\u00a0\u00c1no a ve\u013ea.\u00a0Ale je len jedna vec,\u00a0 ktor\u00fa skuto\u010dne \u013eutujem.\u00a0A bola to ve\u013emi o\u010dividn\u00e1 chyba.\u00a0Mal som\u00a0 ma\u0165 menej strach.\u00a0M\u00f4\u017eem \u013eahko vymenova\u0165 na po\u010dkanie 10, 20 alebo aj 100 d\u00f4vodov, pre\u010do som sa ob\u00e1val o svoje deti.\u00a0Medzi nimi boli glob\u00e1lne veci, ako napr\u00edklad skuto\u010dnos\u0165, \u017ee som \u00a0sa pres\u0165ahoval do krajiny ,kde som nemal nikoho na pomoc a\u00a0b\u00e1l so sa o\u00a0politick\u00fd pokoj a\u00a0bezpe\u010dnos\u0165 mojich det\u00ed..\u00a0M\u00f4j syn mal osem \u00a0a moje dc\u00e9ry \u2013 p\u00e4\u0165 a\u00a0\u0161es\u0165 rokov.\u00a0Museli si zvyka\u0165 na nov\u00e9 prostredie, kamar\u00e1tov, na jazyk. B\u00e1l som sa \u010di to zvl\u00e1dnu. Hravo to zvl\u00e1dli. \u013dahko sa prisp\u00f4sobili nov\u00fdm podmienkam. Stali sa ob\u013e\u00faben\u00fdmi v\u00a0kolekt\u00edvoch. V\u0161etci ich volali k\u00a0sebe domov na n\u00e1v\u0161tevu. Mal som sa b\u00e1\u0165 menej\u00a0B\u00e1l som sa \u010di zvl\u00e1dnu jazyk. Po roku hovorili s\u00a0pr\u00edzvukom, ak\u00fd ja nem\u00e1m doposia\u013e. Deti s\u00fa m\u00fadre, u\u010denliv\u00e9. Mal som sa b\u00e1\u0165 menej.B\u00e1l so sa, \u010di bud\u00fa dobr\u00fdmi \u017eiakmi. V\u0161etky moje deti ukon\u010dili vysok\u00e9 \u0161koly a\u00a0s\u00fa \u0161pi\u010dkou vo svojom odbore. Mal som sa b\u00e1\u0165 menejB\u00e1l so sa , \u010di popri \u0161t\u00fadiu sa nau\u010dia ma\u0165 aj dobr\u00e9 rodiny. \u010ci sa vydaj\u00fa, o\u017eenia. Syn je \u017eenat\u00fd a\u00a0m\u00e1 tri deti\u010dky. Obe dc\u00e9ry s\u00fa u\u017e \u0161\u0165astne vydat\u00e9 a\u00a0s\u00fa matkami Mal som sa b\u00e1\u0165 menejTeraz sa boj\u00edm o\u00a0svoje vn\u00fa\u010dat\u00e1. Nestane sa im ni\u010d? Neudr\u00fa sa ?Bud\u00fa sa dobre u\u010di\u0165?Deti ma karhaj\u00fa: Neboj sa s\u00fastavne!Strach o\u00a0deti o\u00a0ich \u017eivoty je ist\u00fdm prejavom l\u00e1sky ale aj obavy z\u00a0n\u00e1\u0161ho vlastn\u00e9ho zlyhania pri v\u00fdchove.\u00a0Strach je ako k\u00fazlo, ktor\u00e9 pracovalo zle.\u00a0L\u00e1ska k na\u0161im de\u0165om je tak\u00e1 obrovsk\u00e1, \u017ee sa niekedy \u00a0stane panikou.\u00a0A\u00a0potom si uvedom\u00ed\u0161, \u017ee v\u00a0strachu si \u00a0pre\u0161iel o\u00a0niektor\u00e9 \u010darovn\u00e9 momenty \u00a0a v\u0161etky tieto momenty zmizli.\u00a0Na\u0161e deti zrazu maj\u00fa svoje vlastn\u00e9 \u017eivoty.\u00a0A cel\u00fa dobu str\u00e1ven\u00fa v \u00fazkosti som str\u00e1vil m\u00e1rne.\u00a0Musel som sa ob\u00e1va\u0165 a b\u00e1\u0165 sa menej a smia\u0165 sa a viac milova\u0165.\u00a0Ke\u010f sa pozriem sp\u00e4\u0165, vid\u00edm, \u017ee v\u0161etko, \u010do ma najviac znepokojovalo je oby\u010dajn\u00e9 \u00a0detsk\u00e9 spr\u00e1vanie mojich det\u00ed.\u00a0Ale deti s\u00fa deti.\u00a0S\u00fa \u00a0niekedy hlu\u010dn\u00e9, niekedy \u00a0nezodpovedn\u00e9.\u00a0A potom \u00a0zrazu v\u0161etky\u00a0 vyrast\u00fa.\u00a0Ob\u00e1vame sa tak ve\u013ea o tom, \u017ee deti sa spr\u00e1vaj\u00fa ako deti, \u017ee zab\u00fadame, \u017ee rodi\u010dia by mali naopak pochopi\u0165, \u017ee detstvo je do\u010dasn\u00fd jav.\u00a0A oni potrebuj\u00fa rados\u0165, nie strach.\u00a0Va\u0161e deti, rovnako ako moje, jedn\u00e9ho d\u0148a prestan\u00fa by\u0165 mal\u00e9.\u00a0Po\u010d\u00favajte moje rady, starosti menej.\u00a0Milujte viac.\u00a0                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        3.6\/5 - (5 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Boj\u00edme sa o deti","item":"https:\/\/www.mandr.sk\/bojime-sa-o-deti\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]